Yea, Thornton is right igit. Come to this forum and post your vents. Believe me, I will understand them. Take the high road with your W. Believe me, when my W texted me today asking for $ every ounce of me wanted to say call OM. And then question if he would even do it and what a great guy he turned out to be. But, I keep that for my inner monologue.

You can get through this igit. It just takes an effort to control what you WANT to do vs. what has been shown to give you the best shot at R.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16