CSan - Filed, moving and life goes on....

[Old Dog]

Hi CSan00, sorry I havn't read your back story yet, but this jumped out at me.

... and I am being called by my extended family that I am doing the wrong thing. My life is in shambles.

Don't forget, your family will want to protect you and make you feel all right: they will want get you out of a situation where you are unhappy. It's good to have support, but remember they will be biased, they do not neccesarily know what the best thing for you and your relationship is.

Your life may be a shambles now, but you can rebuild it.