Long term marriage - husband quit!

[bugsby]

Why do WAH insist on such quick divorces? It is every time I talk to him now.

Yes, I know, the obvious, the OW is pressuring him, he does not feel comfortable living here (duh, why?) and does not want to continue to pay the bills.

I have respectfully told him I am not ready, I will not talk about it, and I know what my principles and know what MY choices are and he is welcome to do what he must.

He has no idea what a mess this is going to be (he wants a "no Lawyer, me sign over the house no alimony deal" --- never going to happen.

My counsel says "sit tight" and hold your ground. Refuse to be pushed into something you do not agree with.
are there any stories of WAH who pressured, pressured and pressured and then changed their minds?

This is very painful.