The book dance of anger talks about that. When you change your part on an unhealthy pattern, or dance,your partner will react with discomfort and rage because what hes used to gas changed. In time it settles down.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.