Cadet thanks. Everyone is right that I need to just let this go. Stop resisting and just give him what he wants. This whole MLC process makes you spin out of control so you try to grasp onto anything you can to slow it down, make it somewhat tolerable and at your pace. But this is out of my control. He has made the decision and I can do nothing about it.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home