Long term marriage - husband quit!

[bugsby]

Yes. He wants to tell them:

"You know mom and I fought a lot in the last few years" . >>except, I must add - about the last 2<<. He wants to tell them- from what I gather from his texts, that

"He chose to end the marriage to stop the fighting!" and that "when he met the OW. AFTER the marriage was "done" there was no affair - because mom and dad decided the marriage was OVER!"

A. He thinks this makes him a hero - because he HAD to stop the fighting by ending the marriage.
and
B. the other woman is REALLY not an other woman.

This is the gist of his text. He believes he can bullshinola them into believing this, because at the current HE believes this. Also I imagine he believes rainbows and unicorns are going to carry them into their next life....