I see your point Gabby. I wish it was already a done deal & over with. It would be so much better... but, its not.
Its just not good timing... not if I have a hope in hell of getting a decent agreement from him. It would be more complicated and more expensive overall (for me) & he won't be as fair... if I push now.
I am not digging a grave.. I am planting a seed. I know that if I push now, he will retaliate & be mean/resentful towards my deal. Don't forget that his current RE deal affects me too (business & personally). I need to back off/away during this time... not push & demand.
He is already stressed out & miserable now.
What difference does another week or so make?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
