Wife officially walked away just over a month ago

[BigMac]

Thanks Cadet.
Over the past couple weeks I think I have made the turn to Detaching and GAL.

I have been studying buddhism, getting therapy for past trauma's, cleaning the house like crazy man.

I'm throwing a UFC party this weekend (she lives in Austin now). As well as getting my pilot's license a couple other things.

I did pop for the coaching, and am focusing on not reaching out to her, and just being attractive (I am already down 50 + lbs since christmas)

One thing, I did get a call from her while I was on my way back from DC / New York on a little personal vacation. I mentioned that I started working out again.

The next day, she posts on facebook that she ordered TRX straps because she didn't like the way her butt looked. I am sure I'm mind reading, but I do think there is a connection.

That being said, I'm trying to use the Gift of time to make a better me. I wish I had done this earlier in the relationship, but I do hope that fate will being us back together. I really do believe she is my soulmate, I do have hope.