Yes, oad, on and off he has been drinking too much. I don't think it's been a constant, or that he couldn't stop. Only that he is using that now to dull his emotions.

He used to be a runner--it helped him a lot. Now he can't run with his knee being so bad.
So--he's got to "do something" not to jump out of his own skin.

Just an update:
I asked if I should be concerned about the sewer gas killing us all in our sleep tonight, since we BOTH smelled gas.

HE says: .........WAIT FOR IT.......

"Um. I dunno." And shrugs with a sheepish expression.

"Why don't you GOOGLE it?"

Are you friggin kidding me????

Something is clearly wrong with this man. No doubt about it.
Even a neighbor would get more consideration.

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We talked about "the weekend" about which he couldn't give me "his" schedule, until I told him how "alone" he'd get to be in the house. (Sheesh.)

I just was really sweet and cool. STFU. STFU..STFU...


And then I essentially asked: "So, what time do you go to SLEEP?"
Getting at what time would work for him for me to come back, so I wouldn't interrupt--his---whatever.

HIM: (Snippy.) "I don't KNOW, GOAT GAL. It DEPENDS...."

WTF?

I'm about ready to tell him to stick his overnights in his ear. I sure as hell don't need this crap.

I'd rather just come home to a bunch of barking dogs and get up at the crack of dawn than deal with his "covering" for me.

Really.
Give me a break.

--GG


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?