Just a random thought, and I know the advice about not reading into anything h says, but as we were giving the boys a shower last night we were talking about something, can't even remember what it was and he made a "joke" about my boyfriend-no idea what the conversation was about, just remember that part because it stuck out, my re response was " yeah right my boyfriend" with some heavy sarcasm. The reason it stuck out is because he has made a few comments lately that are similar in a joking way every time, talking to a good friend last night and she said that he's gauging me, see what my reaction will be. A few weeks ago I had made similar "jokes" to h, only we both knew that I wasn't joking, and that I was trying to see how he would respond and also to get a dig in, I've since sstopped doing this when he said (and he was drunk and claims he ddoesn't remember saying it) that he found it offensive that I was constantly making remarks like that, so I apologized and have not made a comment like that since. Big ramble, just stuck 8 head that's all
