Originally Posted By: Jessa
Afternoon All!

I have been 180'ing since March, 2014 and feel wonderful! Getting my life together, and moving on.

I am 100% ready to file. All the paperwork is done and everything I need to put in place for my life is in place.

But...He is starting to try to act like a decent human again. Not a lot, but small things.

So, I told my husband that I am putting the papers on hold, because he is showing small encouraging things.

We tried to spend time together this past weekend, but by Sunday I felt sick to my stomach being around him.

He's still a bitter, unhealthy mess of a man.

I can not "save" that man. And I can't wait around for that man-child to wake up.

As much as I do not ideally want a divorce, I think it's time to see the writing on the wall.


He's gross. frown Just gross.

I can do SO SO much better.

I just wanted to get it out there.


If that is what you want then file.

Me-70, D37,S36