Am I on the right track?

[wmwb123]

My wife moved out a month ago. I have only spoken to her in person two times since then, and both times I begged and pleaded (I hadn't had a chance to read anything at that point). It has since come to my attention that she’s having an affair. She denied it, but I have proof. She seems very guilt ridden because she absolutely refuses to talk to me and will not respond to text messages. I started my 180 of not pursuing her or initiating contact in any way a week ago after confronting her. Am I doing the right thing? Isn’t this exactly what she wants? It does seem to be better for my sanity, though, because it irritates me to no end when she ignores my text messages. How do I affect anything when she won’t have any contact with me whatsoever? And is this guilt she’s apparently experiencing a good thing?