Right now your marriage is only in danger because it sounds like you're thinking about why you might have to end it.
You can't go on averages and ratios, no matter what the books say.
If you don't have sex for three months because something occurs (illness, argument, whatever), but then have it three times a week for the rest of the year, it's not a SSM.
You're looking at the glass as half full.
Think of all the wonderful things you DO have!
---GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?