And Grey--PLEASE---some guys jump in here to help because I just can't go there--- some of the things you alluded to about your physical....um.. "discomfort" with your situation, lead me to believe you may have ethical/moral/religious? objections to dealing with "things" in a more practical way.
(If you know what I mean.)
I guess I don't understand about that. Is it because now you're married and you think that is something reserved for your W?
Just wondering...
--GG
If you're talking about masturbation, yes, I do that. Pretty much every guy does, including happily married guys with great sex lives.
But one thing I never had before was random erections or wet dreams. It's embarassing, even dangerous when it comes to work.
But it also doesn't address the "need." It's not an itch to scratch, it's a physical connection that I promised never to share with anyone else. It's the ultimate expression of love. I could go on but DB explains a lot of that and I have always believed that part is true.
