One thing that jumps out again is that it really pushes your buttons when your W jokes about all the encounters she had before you, and since you're feeling neglected, this would bother anybody.
At the very least, you could tell her that hearing about her previous lovers upsets you and you wish she would refrain from discussing them around you.
Not to criticize her, just to state a boundary of yours.
I don't think any of us would like to have our spouse's previous sexual adventures paraded in front of our faces, especially if we weren't getting any of that.
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
