Seriously. I have been ripped a new one over there. I believe there is such a thing as a MLC, but I believe it to be rare. On the other hand, many of the so called MLC situations to me appear to be SSM problems.
I guess to me a SSM problem is one where the COUPLE has problems in meeting each others needs, whereas a MCL problem is where all needs are BEING MET, but the spouse still behave irresponsibly. Is there a BETTER definition?
