I hear ya...my MIL doesn't want us to D but she she validates my W to the point where now my wife says even her mother agrees with the D..lol

Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14