I know, the other opinion things is very true. I just know it's a thin line on whether to say the D word. And I feel bad for saying it, but if that's the way she wants it, do I want that in my life still. Thanks for the comments.
One thing is, why does she keep asking me for what to do? I know I was her support system, but now of all times to ask me that question. Weird out sometimes. I did get upset with my own mother yesterday. My Wife came from D family, and had it fairly rough long story just believe me. My mother thinks that since her father is fairly wealthy, makes a very good living, that she had things and that's part of it. I actually stood up for my wife and said listen just because they had money doesn't mean it wasn't rough. I am tired of hearing that, says it often, I told her that was the last time I wanted to hear it period. Things like that just don't help in the end.
The sad thing is that my folks are just very opinionated and love her to death. But you wouldn't know it sometimes lol!!!