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TL, in regards to changing your will and living will, don't forget to change any assets that "bypass" your will, such as IRAs, retirement accounts, etc.
Those named beneficiaries are distributed outside of the directions in the will, but if you're divorced from a named beneficiary such as exH, there may be provisions in your state for your intended beneficiaries to contest that possible oversight.