OH NO, Ssarah.. You were not a bad wife... That is the dance MLCer plays in your mind.. What makes a healthy relationship? - Good communication - respect - devotion - honesty - loyalty - integrity - support - you WANT to do things for your mate that will make them feel good about themselves, things that will put a smile on their face..
MLCer are betraying the foundation of a healthy relationship by having OW(s). Their struggle IS WITH THEMSELF. Not you
I to, have thought I might of been able to change for him and be what he wanted me to be but the truth is I could never be what he wanted cause what he loved me for is everything he wanted me to change..There is absolutely nothing I could do right. He needed justification and I was destroying myself by changing to try and please him.. that is when I chose to be a person I admire, love and respect.. I worked on my weaknesses and work on me FOR ME and my kids.
