That's much more analysis of the OW than I would ever indulge in but if it helps...

Basically I'm saying, go back to what you (hopefully) had at some time.

Even now you can smile when you see him, be authentic and loving and open and vulnerable. (don't worry we all get stuck on that one)

About your feelings today, see what happens over the next few days. For me those lows preceded moving to a new level, much like kids get cranky, restless, sleepless when going through a developmental milestone.

Sit with the yuckiness, it will pass.


Last edited by labug; 07/02/14 03:13 PM.
Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss