mdu,

All that probably came across as way too harsh.

I just really think that a lot of times it is easy for others to see, from our posts on here, what our spouses may be dealing with on a daily basis with us. Does that make sense? I could read my own posts and see the Train my H was dealing with. And sometimes it became pretty obvious the patterns I needed to change in myself.

Again, I hope you weren't hurt by what I wrote. That truly was not my intent. And I hope you can glean *something* from it.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014