Just remember DB is for you. If you're doing all this work for your spouse it will backfire. There is the possibility she may not come back, don't let her actions or behaviors take you down anymore than they already have.
You're making good progress. Like I said earlier check the advice from wise DB'ers forum/thread. A lot of really amazing stuff there.
"Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing, and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And stay." ~ Will Smith
