Right now I'm waiting again. Waiting for her to try something, any action to show she either cares about her health or our marriage enough to take some responsibility, which you have to do no matter what the problem is.
In the meantime, she's perfectly happy not to change anything. That's the trick. I have to wait again until I can't wait anymore and my therapist says I should say something, so for now I just wait another 2 weeks to see my therapist and I'll take Tylenol PM on the weekends to make sure I get sleep even when I feel the most rejected (she'll stay up past 2 AM this weekend drinking with friends for the holiday but saying she's too tired for me is what hurts so I can't sleep but tylenol pm will help me sleep).
