"Are you going out?" "Do you have plans?" "What time are you leaving?" "How late will you be out?"
Arrrgggggghhhhh!!!
Why doesn't he just say: "I'd like to stay over...???"
I'll tell you why. Because that would make him look like he needs/wants something from me.
(As opposed to "I want a Di-VOOOOORRECCCE!!!!" which is something he yells at me when he's mad at me.)
Whether he plans a porn-fest (no evidence of this recently), or just really does want to hang out with the dogs, (getting hammered!) on the couch while flipping TV stations until he passes out with no interference from me or worries that I'll get "too close" (as in: Existing)... Well who knows, really.
But every week it ticks me off.
And every week I sweetly bite my tongue.
This time when we discussed scheduling I threw him a bone; asked if he might like to take a ride in our old MG, since she's touchy and I don't want to take her out alone.
His answer: "She's not going anywhere, unfortunately." (Not a clue there of his interest, at least that I can see.)
Car's not running and he ignores it, has for years now. It was "his baby". Guess that's gone by the wayside like everything else.
--GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
