Just as a thought - we are all broken in some way, depending whom you ask.

The real issue comes down to whether or not you're willing to stay and work through it, or...not.

As for dating somebody new, I suggest finishing with the current relationship first. It's not that I'd be concerned about hurting somebody else - you know better and can do no more than be honest with the person you're in a relationship with.

Kimmerz is honest. She is not hurting him. She is, by contrast being very respectful and honest by telling him the truth about he feelings. If she wasn't honest about it, then it wouldn't be worth it to continue.

Kimmerz, can I suggest you be careful with diagnosing issues in the both of you? At some point, you may just want to stop, drop, and enjoy the relationship without the analysis smile

AJ


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Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."