I am right outside Chicago so even a small apartment would run me $1500 with electricity and water each month. Can't swing that and the moving/all the kids crammed into a small place/no yard would make me go crazy.

There is no adult that 1. Would not scream at H to get out 2. That he respects besides his family.

The reason why he has access to my room is because for now he has been helping with the baby. He will get up with her during the night and brings her to me to nurse during the night and when he leaves for work he brings get cradle into my room and puts it next to my bed so I don't have to get up till the twins are up.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction