Hypnotherapy is being used to help curb the over the top anxiety and grief.
Ben: No one can ignore or block out pain, but the process was used (hopefully will help) the extreme sense of loss and panic Almost like a guided meditation, it shows you how to (hopefully) use imagery like a tv remote to change the bad pictures into something you can handle. Calm, serene place.
I know the fighting was over the top previously in the relationship. We had come a long ways in NOT fighting, in fact the past 2 years, we seemed to be doing extremely well. We did have a huge blow up at the end, ( I just started EDMR for recovery of past issues we argue over.) and for him it was the last straw- according to him.
(if you ignore the girlfriend) Thats when he checked out.
Thornton: Thanks, will check them out. I have used meditation before.
Me: 48 H: 48 Married 26 , together 30 D1: 21 D2: 18 "Happily Married" until BD 4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone" No papers filed. Attempting 180, finding it difficult.