Wow, 4 hours with almost two hour drive each way… He must have been really scarred that he would lose his chance to come home. I wonder if he already packed up everything before he came to see you. I think you are up for some rollercoaster ride. He is very confused man. I hope you have all the wisdom and patience to handle it.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state