Sad day.
Had hypnotherapy to try to curb the strongest outbursts with calming process.

Husband wants to "explain" his affair to DD18 AND DD 21. They are both responding - (it is good - but kind of hurts my feelings a little bit - to be honest.)
There is no reason for cheating. He wants to tell "his side", and of course, and WHY he is doing what he is doing.

These are my daughters. Someone is cheating on their mother. If their own father says it is OK - or excusable, what stops them from internalizing this?

If it is excusable to cheat on mom, then it is excusable for me to be cheated on, too.

what is he thinking? My 18 yo is not an emotional adult (neither is my 21 yo for that matter.) Makes me really angry.

Last edited by bugsby; 07/02/14 02:31 AM.
Me: 48
H: 48
Married 26 , together 30
D1: 21
D2: 18
"Happily Married" until BD
4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone"
No papers filed.
Attempting 180, finding it difficult.