You seem to be the one always wanting to "talk" about the relationship and "needs" and getting closer, etc.. She doesn't think there is anything wrong and is closed off...
When you have "role reversal" in a relationship, the man starts to come across as more feminine and the woman then starts to take on the masculine traits.
What then happens is that the woman loses respect and her attraction to the man. She can't open up about her feelings because he is always wanting to talk about his feelings. This is subconscious on both the man and woman.
The solution is that the man needs to get back more to his "male" side. In other words, start talking less about his feelings and the relationship and doing more "male" type activities and hobbies....
She won't feel safe talking about her feelings while she worries that you are so sensitive about your feelings..
Your best bet was to just tell her something like... "Hey, I am attracted to you and the bottom line is I want more sex"..
You wanted to get into a deep "feelings and relationship talk" which is usually a feminine trait.. I would assume she again secretly took to the male side and thought.."here he goes again wanting to talk about his feelings and the relationship and I just want to watch this movie and be left alone".....
