Hi Ben. I agree I need to have goals. I do have goals for myself but have not thought about goals for us. I guess because again I'm living in fear! I'm afraid to set goals that include him because I'm afraid I won't reach them. Pretty ridiculous now that I see that written. Can one of the goals be that he doesn't bring up D or telling the kids?!?! aahhhh, that really is my biggest fear...

Good for you for having a good date with your W!


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since