It has been over a week. It is over.

What's more important is that you pace the exchanges instead of coming across as overly smothering. I get the sense that when W gives you an inch, you want to take a mile out of this like an overexcited 3-month old puppy. Watch out for your reactions which are centered around expectations.

The reason why I am okay with texting Ms. Wonka this week is that I have zero expectations and I know I will not spin out of control if she doesn't respond at all. THIS IS THE KEY. And our last text communication took place during the last week of March. So three SOLID months of zero contact. I'm a big girl and can handle this long dry period!

Can you handle this?




Last edited by Wonka; 07/02/14 01:22 AM.