I do agree with being a strong man is attractive. This caught my attention
Quote:
"so why did you ask my opinion?"


Admittedly I am not familiar with your situation, however, I know this feeling. Is this something that was a problem in your M? I know for me, when someone asks my opinion and then totally disregards it, it is very frustrating.

Don't get me wrong, I am not by any means saying you shouldn't go, just wondering if there was another way to handle it.


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since