Sandi, we had previous discussed going to MC together and I said I was going myself and if she cared to join me. True I asked again since she didn't answer the first time but only because I didn't want the MC holding open spots for us - she is in demand.
But I see what you mean. BTW she's been nagging me for years Claims I have cloth ears, or "ornaments" as she jokingly calls them. I know I don't like it but if I don't answer the first time I don't mind being asked again - oftentimes it's just that other stuff fills my head in the interim. But she's different than me. So I'll pay closer attention to the timing.
After we had the conversation about the appointment I was driving away. I stop the car, turned it off, got out and walked over to her and told her that her feeling the need to say yes just to please me is the bad pattern we need to stop. She said, yes, she needs to work on that.
Yes, the iPad thing was dredging up old resentments. I just don my spew jacket.
And Wonka, I wouldn't mind you chiming in on my sitch.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
Claims I have cloth ears, or "ornaments" as she jokingly calls them. I know I don't like it but if I don't answer the first time I don't mind being asked again - oftentimes it's just that other stuff fills my head in the interim. But she's different than me. So I'll pay closer attention to the timing. 