You don't have the power to push him out. And if you " pushed" him out, that isn't your W willingly letting him go in order to work on the M.
Where ever you are getting the advice on how to work on the M when OM is in the picture ( because the believe here is that it is not possible. And I believe it truly is not possible) perhaps you should ask that question to whomever or where ever you got the advice. Because 99.9% of the people here will tell you to work on yourself and that you cannot work on an m with OP in the picture.
Have you read DR?!
Read DB.
I have worked so hard this weekend on really applying the principles in DB. I try really hard to keep my mouth shut.
I have started to GAL. I think I am just a little gun shy...Went out with some friends. I was talking to the sister of one of their wives shes only 25 now shes texting and calling me all day...This is not what I need right now...she could be my daughter!
Can you believe I feel guilty every-time she calls me...I keep trying to be dad like...
