Maybe you should try something simple when you talk to him or you go on vacation. Just set 3 goals for yourself. Like for instance when I went on a date with the W this weekend, I set 3 goals. The most important things to you on the date or whatever youre doing. Mine were 1)Have a good time 2)She has a good time 3) End it on a positive note. I ended up doing all of those on the date. For you it might be a day to day thing on vacation. Maybe you make it something new everyday or more challenging. Just come up with a list of things that you would like to do and break it down to the most important things.
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14