MB, my STBXH had mentioned remarriage but now he states that he can't be a parent to my boys as he and I have 2 different types of parenting and that can't be resolved. So I a left with thinking what is left then. My STBXH has decided that the D is for the best for us all and he has issues with my family. All these negatives are huge and I don't see my STBXH wanting to deal or overcome them. My STBXH is also working on his issues in IC including for PTSD. I hate to say a R is impossible but on paper it seems that way. I am grieving for our M and feel sad for what was lost...To see my STBXH has been nice but confusing as to what is this and I don't want to get hurt again. I wish we could truly have a restart but I don't see how with all the issues and hurt?
Last edited by CSan00; 07/01/1411:18 PM.
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014
