Thx, Train, point taken. I will definitely find the right way to explore this with H. Truly, he is NOT a planner. He and I have discussed this often. However, he also said that he stopped initiating/planning dates in our M because they weren't enjoyable, we would end up fighting (certainly not always but enough that he lost interest :-( ) Anyways, maybe with enough fun ones under our belt he will get more motivated to initiate and PLAN something for us. As always, I'll keep you all posted.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
