I'm glad to hear the Dark isn't always the answer. Be very careful with expectations tho. I have not had a lot of contact with H, no R talk at all (which is actually good because I'm not sure I'm ready for that anyway). Mostly business with some small talk mixed in, even a little joking. However, there have been some instances he has not responded at all, (happy birthday text, happy father's day text) so again...NO EXPECTATIONS.

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since