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I will ask my H his secret, Maybell!! I know he picks up a trendy magazine with goings-on in the area. That's a great place to start!

mdu, I came back on to add:

It could be that your H isn't the planning type at all, and it would add a lot of pressure to him to plan and organize a date. BUT, YOU asking him shows, as Wonka said, you're willing to give him a voice and let go of the driver's seat for a while.

Just an observation, but I've never met a man who likes to feel he's being led by his wife.