Dealing with an ongoing affair

[pilot]

Peter, I tend to do what you do in your conversations. I reiterate a lot, and I try to over explain in a manner which does not make the other person feel boxed in or threatened. In your case, perhaps just let her decide, or even decide not to decide. She knew you wanted her to attend the MC, and even though the time is coming up and she has not answered, let her take that time. She may not even decide till Monday morning. Because reading your last post, even though I know you meant well, it still comes off as controlling. You are telling her not to please you and to do what she wants. Not trying to come across as rude to you... Its just that I can relate to your style of conversation.