So Thorn, Speaking of some sort of communication. I thought about what it was at the beginning of our R that made her fall in love with me. What seems to have been the thing is my sweet text messages to her in the mornings. So this morning I decided to "try something different" and sent her a text message that said "good morning beautiful". Those are the kind of things that I used to say to her. She loved them. I only got a reply of "morning", but I still dont feel like it was a mistake. I know she will be thinking about it.
Ben is right. I will probably offer a compliment the next time I see my W if she offers one first. Baby steps. You cannot rebuild your relationship without swinging the hammer. Just assume that every now and then you will smash your thumb in the process.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
