Ss, H is checking because he is insecure. Was he the jealous type prior to this?
When we first met and got together he definitely was. Then as we got older and he more secure in our R he didn't seem to be. Although now he brings up random points that make me wonder if he always was jealous but just suppressed it. Since BD he has brought up random things that I told him about that he is now twisting to say that I either slept with people (random guys at sister-in-laws bachelorete) or so and so (my boss for example) was pursuing me. And the funny thing is although I'm confident I have never been a flirt. I have always been considerate of H's feelings, cutting off friends he didn't particularly like, not having male friends, etc., because to me his security mattered most.
[/quote]But it also is a sign that he still has some kind of feelings for you... why else would he care what you were up to? [/quote] If he has feelings he has a funny way of showing them. Pursuing the D as hard as he is doesn't make me think he has mixed emotions.. it says he is full steam ahead with this.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home
