Matt165, you're probably right. It definitely would make him feel good and make this whole thing alot easier on him if he could just pin something on me. To find something on me would be like Christmas for him. After all, since BD he has randomly brought up random past scenarios where he is now accusing me of sleeping with someone. Like during my sister-in-laws bachelorette party I must have slept with someone, or when I had to go away for work, I definitely had sex with my boss "to get back at him". He is just so twisted and dellusional.
As for your W I'm sure anything you would post she would twist against you. If you wrote she was the best W there was she would say you're being sarcastic and a jerk. They will twist everythign to fit their mold and go against you. At least that's what my H is doing.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home