Dropping the rope

[woundedfool]

No I have not. I will have to set up another consultation (250/pop )

Thats why I suggest you first call your other choices.... ask them for a break on the 250, as you are reconsidering your choice. Stress that you will be brief, and would even entertain doing over the phone (provided you WILL be brief, and do it over the phone).... Or offer to take them to lunch (I never met a L who didn't want a "free lunch").

So you think I am right by not having them around her and him right now? Peolle are making me question my decision

Don't go with my advice, look at some of these:

http://www.mcbrienandkane.com/easyblog/entry/girlfriends-and-boyfriends-during-and-after-a-divorce-1

http://family-law.lawyers.com/divorce/divorce-and-dating.html

I am not talking about AFTER the D (then he is free to take the kids to a swingers camp out if he wants), but during the D... it is simply improper to expose the kids to a new BF/GF.

Thats why it is stunning to me that your L has not nipped this in the bud.

***Again, IANAL.... but even simply a call to H's attorney saying "He should not be exposing the kids to his new girlfriend during the divorce, will he concede this?, or will you be forcing us to have a hearing with Judge ____"?