It's also important to remember that your h should not be coddled because he's in crisis. Showing empathy- yes. However, he is not a child and is still responsible for his actions.
And that's the one thing I'm really bad at.. I've always been a nurturer and continue to be. He asks me for something and I do it. It's something I need to stop.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home