I know I can't work on the M, while OM is in the picture.

But I have had other advice to gently push him out.
then other advice to ignore it do the 180 etc..

Every time I do the 180, I get a comment from her to the effect that I am ignoring her on purpose Nd she knows what I am to.

W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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