Wonka, I would love to speak to H about this (and many other things about our R!). But am wondering if it's the right time. Remember that whole email I was going to send asking him for feedback about various things? It was in a similar vain. And everyone was like no, no, no! That's just too much too soon.

I guess I don't get when/if we should be trying to discuss/tackle potential R issues. I'd be glad to but *I'm* afraid to broach things!

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14