Ok, so the question I am now pondering.

How am I supposed to work on my marriage while OM is still in communication with WAW? The part where I am conflicted is, how do I try and get her to not be in this relationship without being controlling?

For example this past weekend there where two instances where she lowered a boundary that she had in place but then I tried to push it a little further and she got very upset.


W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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